============================================================== To reach ALL SJD members, please send to sjd@satjadham.net ... Do NOT include any other addresses when sending to the list... Include as LITTLE of the original messages as possible........ Message sent by: LanXang Siengkhene *** Announcement: *** Please send your member fee to Victor if you haven't done so. ============================================================== As I liked to frequent the river, I saw many things happening to it. Of course, there were boats bringing people and goods across the river. Also, there were fishermen stationing their paroques a little bit off the shores. The time that the river was mostly swarmed by people on both shores was on two occasions: bathing at sunset and boat race in the eleventh month of the Buddhist calendar (October). You wouldn't believe how many people bathed in the river if you never lived by the river. Yes, there were a lot from people of all ages. Some just grabbed a bowl and poured the water on their bodies. Some would dive and remained under the water for some length of time. Some would swim with fast moving arms and feet, and some, especially the female, would make a balloon out of their Sinh and float with it. Sometimes, some people especially the young male would stop by to watch the female taking a bath in the river. I wonder why they were fascinated by that sight. Of course, I didn't know at that time how fascinating the female body was because I was too young and too naive. Anyway, bathing in the Mekong river was fun. People really had a good time and helped tie a bond between people in the community. Thinking back, I wonder why people liked to bath in the Mekong river which was murky and muddy. I guess only the above statement explained it all. About the boat race, I didn't have much collection for I was young to enjoy it. The only memory was that there were so many people lining up the shores of the river. With fun, the Mekong river also brought sadness especially during the rainy season. At times, I would see a drowned and swollen body floating with the current past the shore. As my residence was next to the hospital, I came to see so many bloated bodies getting pulled out of the river and lay face up on the hospital floor. I guess that was life. Good times and bad times came together in one package. You can not pick and choose one and discard another. What you can do, instead, is to come to terms with it, and then you will be fine. Isn't life is to grow wise with time, after all? (to be continued) __________________________________________________ Do You Yahoo!? Talk to your friends online with Yahoo! Messenger. http://im.yahoo.com _ ***************************************************************** Visit SatJaDham Homepage at: http://www.satjadham.org (or .net) *****************************************************************