From dkhamph@qualcomm.comThu Jun 8 12:50:25 1995 Date: Thu, 8 Jun 1995 07:49:57 -0700 From: Dennis Khamphoukeo To: laolit Subject: PHOU YING LAO Back in the old day in Laos the head of the household was taking care of family, problem, and financial "This is only the good side but we all know about the bad side". For the women they cook, laundry, taking care of the kids and all of those stuffs around the house, and no matter how educated they are those husbands are always in control:( . Now in USA, as we all know things are never stable even like most Laotian women, they have different feeling, ideas, love & sex, and best of all they work and both of them earn money. Wow! imaging about that, but most laotian men still have an old fashion ideas and they are not happy about that because they can not control their women like the same way anymore and they still expected their wifes to do the same like back home. To bad they still carry that ugly attitude with them here. They should throw that attitude in the Mekong Liver while they having a chance. "This is only my opinion." Anyway it take 2 to tango depend on the cases, most of us think that grass is always greener on the other side. To me that is why most laotian families still have alot of argument, an affair, and alot of devorces because most men here are getting drunk all the night and worry about politics more then their wifes, of course who don't get upset! Every laotian women after they escaped from LAOS they need more love, care, friendly, understanding, and someone they can expresses their feeling to like their husbands, also you know what i'm trying to say heheehaha :) (To all the Laotian men take care your love.) By the way this is only the case that I saw it here... TAKE CARE!!! ********Any comments please email to: laolit@tuddy.cc.monash.edu.au******** Long live to SatJadham Dennis Khamphoukeo